How to Impress a Girl on a Date

Dates are a great opportunity to show a girl that you're talented, interesting, and cool - basically, that you're boyfriend material! By following a few easy steps, you can impress a girl on a date and make her enjoy your company, making that coveted second date a reality. A lighthearted sense of humor and basic etiquette might be all it takes to steal your lady's heart.

Steps

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    Take the initiative. If you don't invite her on a date, she most likely won't invite you. Be nice when inviting her; you could let her pick the place you go and you can pick her up at her place. However, don't spend a large amount of time deciding what to do. Be decisive. Have a plan B as often as possible.
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    Be a real gentleman. Buy her live flowers, open the car door, restaurant doors, give her your jacket (though it might be cheesy girls love it) everything.
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    Just be yourself. All you have to do is relax and don't worry about what she may be thinking of you. Have no fear about putting yourself out there; that will just make her enjoy your company. You'll show her you are comfortable around her.
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    Have a good sense of humor! Laugh at her jokes and smile. Never tell sad experiences, don't turn the date into a sad thing. Stay confident.
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    Set goals. The most important goal to set is making her feel comfortable with you. Ask her about what she does, likes, what her favorite movies are, and tell her about yours.
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    Be a good listener, switch "uh-huhs" for nods and smiles, and don't show disinterest.
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    Make sure you smile when you meet her, so that she will know you are excited to see her.
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    Make sure you don't go too quickly on your date.
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    Don't stare around. This would either make her feel that you are not comfortable or that you are looking at other girls.

Tips

  • Make sure you bring enough money.
  • Try to keep hairstyles relatively modest. Girls worth dating appreciate the well-groomed man.
  • Don't kiss her unless you know she wants to be kissed. Some signs include her constantly looking at you then curling her lips or when you look at each other she glances from your eyes to your lips and back again quickly, but the biggest sign is when you're taking her back to her place; if she jiggles her keys before she goes into the house, it means she want to be kissed. Otherwise there is a lot less chance.
  • After the date, give her another flower. Tell her how much you enjoyed her company and leave her at her place.

Warnings

  • Don't talk about yourself the entire time, let her speak about her.
  • Don't suggest what she should eat (unless asked). Let her choose what she wants to eat.
  • Don't speak about your ex. This will upset her and make her mad.
  • Don't tell her about your "sexy stories" or sad experiences.
  • Don't talk about money; it's a turn off.
  • Also don't interrupt her in a middle of a conversation, if you were about to say something and she says something and doesn't notice you trying to reply or comment, don't keep trying to say it, just give up and listen to her
  • The bad thing is to comment on another girls dress, if she says she likes and or dislikes it just agree don't add your two cents.
  • Don't try overly hard to impress a girl. It isn't sexy to try hard to impress a girl. She might see you as insecure and insecurity is a turn-off for most women.
  • Don't moan about anything.

Things You'll Need

  • Money
  • A car or any transport (if you're a teen then the former is particularly impressive)
  • Flowers (when appropriate)

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