How to Get a Guy if His Girlfriend Lives in Another Country

We've all heard what bad karma it is to take away someone's man. But is it really that bad if they go willingly? As long as you are both adults it is a mutual decision to be made, however the following tips will put the ball in your court. but you know please be respectful and try not to home-wreck


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    Find out how long they have been together and how serious the relationship is. This will give you insight into the seriousness of the situation and the steps that need to be taken. Also find out how far away she lives and if it's likely that she's coming to visit.
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    Find out which traits of his girlfriend's that he likes/doesn't like. This works to your advantage because he most likely spends more time with you than her. If he mentions specific traits or qualities that he likes, such as a girl who cooks, be that girl!
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    Be hot, sexy and open to try new things. Guys love girls who are open to trying new things. This also applies to cooking, the way to a mans heart is through his stomach.
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    Don't be too available. This'll intrigue him; allow him wonder a little bit too.
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    Be fun. He's obviously into you because he doesn't see you in the same way as he sees his girl. Keep the family issues and friend drama to a minimum.
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    Keep your jealousy to yourself. Don't refer to her. If he brings her up listen and don't reveal your feelings, as he can use this against you. It's normal and natural to feel jealous, but be as discreet as possible; you want to come off as secure and confident.
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    Don't say anything if she calls when you're with him. If he's in the wrong, let him handle the situation on his own.
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    Do not make him your only priority if he keeps you as an option. If he doesn't take you seriously your feelings will be hurt.
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    Be prepared. When he sees her again, he may realize that he's taken a liking to you more, but it's possible that this won't be the case. Don't try to build up false hopes; bracing yourself throughout this process could be helpful as interfering with a relationship can really complicate things.


  • Remember you can't take anything that comes with you willingly.
  • Be different than her. Don't give him girlfriend drama or complain, he probably likes you because you are different than what he is used to.
  • Just because she got him first doesn't mean that she has what it takes to keep him.
  • Find out what he doesn't like about her and avoid doing those things!
  • Long distance relationships rarely work out. It's just too hard, so use this to your advantage. Show him what a good time he can have with you, here and now!
  • Keep the relationship under wraps. Don't tell anyone that you are dating/seeing a guy who has a girlfriend, even if she is in another country people will judge you harshly.


  • Don't be upset if he chooses her over you, that was a possibility from the beginning.
  • No matter who the guy is there is always a chance that you will lose him to her or get your heart broken or both, especially because he was with her first.
  • If you do take the next step and sleep with him, it can get very complicated if you start developing feelings for him. You have to detach yourself a bit.
  • Don't be too honest about your feelings for him, unless it comes down to you giving him an ultimatum.
  • Don't let him know your motivation. Don't talk about the future or ask where the relationship is heading. This is not a typical relationship and has to be handled differently.
  • Don't forget what goes around comes around, so be careful because this is a very sticky situation.
  • Take good care of yourself. Always smell good, wear something sexy and keep his attention because she obviously hasn't.
  • Even if he ends up with you it will be very hard to trust him because of him being with you while he was in a relationship.
    • Don't think too much about her, he is choosing to spend time with you and it's possible that he will leave her for you.
  • Don't underestimate the competition, although you have the advantage because you actually know about her.

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