How to Be Hot (Guys)

Three Methods:Start By Looking HotUse Sexy Body LanguageScore with Women

Do you fear that the ladies aren't talking about you? Do you know you need to step up your game but feel unsure of how to do it? These tips on how to be hot will take your pick-up artistry to the next level. Instead of having to beg women to go out with you, they'll be competing for your attention.

Method 1
Start By Looking Hot

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    Step up your fashion. Wear clothes that are in style, you like, and fit your body well. Choose colors that complement your hair, eyes and skin tone. Keep some neutral essentials around such as white t-shirts, classic blue and black jeans, and a watch.
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    Hit the gym. You don't have to have the look of a hardcore bodybuilder, but you do need to be in shape if you want to be hot. Mix cardio with strength training to sculpt a body that the ladies will love.
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    Pay attention to the details. Get a stylish haircut, trim your nails and either shave or trim your facial hair. If you have ear or nose hair, it's time to do some man-scaping. Avoid being overly hairy - a hairy back looks good on no one.
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    Make sure you smell great. You should definitely avoid dousing yourself in cologne, but you should shower, wear a quality deodorant and freshen up your breath. No matter how fit you are or how fashionable, if you smell sweaty or have dog breath, you're going to be lonely.

Method 2
Use Sexy Body Language

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    Work on your eye contact and facial expressions. Try watching some movies that feature really hot actors. Imitate the way that they look at the ladies, and you'll be golden.
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    Practice your smile. Smile with a closed mouth, and don't smile too widely. Also, let one corner of your mouth go slightly higher than the other.
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    Get a sexy walk. Walk with some space between your legs and move more slowly. You'll exude confidence with your swagger, and you'll drive women crazy.
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    Practice good posture. A man who stands upright looks confident, while a slouch shows that he is insecure and uncomfortable. Developing good posture will give the impression that you think you're attractive, which will in turn influence girls to think the same.
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    Develop a sexy voice. Avoid imitating radio announcers or newscasters. Instead, imitate the voice of a sexy man in cinema. The ladies will turn just to see who's talking, and they will melt when you engage them in conversation.
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    Stay calm and strong. If the woman you're talking to becomes emotional or prickly, stay in control of yourself. You're much more likely to score when you remain unruffled by her emotional swings.

Method 3
Score with Women

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    Use your manners. Common courtesies like holding the door for her and saying "thank you" will show her the kind of gentleman that you are. Remember that if she gives you a strange look after you use manners, it's probably because not as many people do that nowadays.
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    Focus the conversation on her. You can talk about yourself, but keep it impressive and brief with just a touch of humility. Always turn the conversation back to her.
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    Improve your mind. Skip time-wasting activities and read a book or a newspaper every day. The more intelligent and well-informed you are, the more likely you are to impress a woman.
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    Take a chance. You'll have to try different methods with women to see what works and what doesn't. However, if you never take your chances to proposition a woman, you'll always land on the best friend list instead of in her arms.
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    Close it out. When you recognize signals of attraction, make your move and get her alone as quickly as possible. She'll appreciate a man who's decisive and willing to move things along.


  • Don't always be so "nice" and plain around her; girls like a guy with an exciting spark.
  • Always be there when she feels lonely and be yourself. Don't act like you're someone else.
  • You don't have to be perfect to be hot. The key is to be comfortable in your own skin.
  • Just ask her out when you get to "know" her.
  • Don't be douche and do the things on this list.


  • Be careful not to earn a reputation as a player. Women will avoid you if they think that you can't be trusted.

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