How to Be a Popular Without Being a Snob

Many of us crave popularity. However, sometimes you can end up taking popularity too seriously. This is risky, since becoming snobbish and unpleasant can end up pushing people away rather than making them like you. Take Regina George from Mean Girls as a start! So how do you become popular without being a snob? Start at step 1 to find out!

Steps

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    Be confident. Shoulders back, chin up and smile! Being confident doesn't mean being arrogant, so make sure to be friendly, even around strangers. Take charge in situations and push yourself out of your comfort zone, even when you feel very scared.
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    Take opportunities to grow when you can. When offered roles or extra activities, make sure you are part of them!
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    Be friendly. Make sure to wave, smile and laugh with everyone you see! Be the one to break the ice when meeting new people. Make lots of acquaintances because if you are kind, you will be liked by lots of people by the end of it!
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    Control your "power". People will have expectations for you now- never abide to them! There is nothing "cooler" than a popular person that is very unpredictable.
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    Treat others how you'd want to be treated. You will be the first one to know the gossip. Don't use it as a weapon! Never blackmail anyone, and keep secrets secret!
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    Remind yourself how lucky you are to be liked by all these people. Never take your popularity for granted. At least once a day, thin about whatever you're doing and try to imagine it in a shy persons mindset. You will want to be kind to even the most horrible of people!

Tips

  • Remind yourself how lucky you are.
  • Think about situations in others point of view.
  • Be kind to everyone.
  • Look good but not trendy- make your own style!
  • Be a person of integrity
  • Have your values stated clearly, make sure you do not compromise so easily. However when there is the need to be little easy, just allow yourself to flow with the order of the day.
  • Be smart
  • Laugh and smile regularly
  • Always be ready to learn,, thence; love studying
  • Remember you are the best . therefore treat people like they are also the best

Warnings

  • Don't expect people to like you.
  • Make sure your online behaviour reflects your true life behaviour.
  • Never use gossip against people.

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Categories: School Popularity