How to Be a Popular Stylish Middle School Girl

Five Parts:AttitudeStyleHygieneMakeupBeing popular

Want to be the one everyone looks up to and love to hang out with? Being popular and stylish are great ways to have fun in Middle school. It will help you make friends and make school time fly by!

Part 1
Attitude

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    Don't be mean and rude to people! They won't like you and you'll probably only have a few friends if any. This includes cyberspace. Never post mean or unkind things online, even if someone is doing so to you. Learn how to deal with Cyber Bullying to help you. Also, when other girls are saying unkind things about another, change the subject. Others might not find you as "cool", but you're doing the right thing.
    • Be nice! Lend a helping hand to those who need it, crack jokes, help teachers by not getting in trouble, anything to be a good person. You don't have to be a goody-goody, Girl Scout though. Just be sure to seek things that are nice.
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    Follow the golden rule: Treat others the way you want to be treated. If you want respect you have to treat others with it. So do your chores and don't talk in class...at least not too much, and even though the teacher can be really annoying, remember to be nice, they are only trying to help you.
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    Live your life the way you want to! Don't care what people think about your clothes or how you look. Honestly,it does not matter how they see you. All that matters is how you see yourself. If anyone makes fun of you, just remember to ignore it.
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    Have fun, be exciting: This doesn't mean that you need to be a drama queen, just do not be boring. When talking to people try to avoid awkward silences and don't be afraid to share you're opinions! Be yourself!

Part 2
Style

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    Find your own style. A lot of people think you have to be a girly princess to be a popular girl, but if you are girly, so be it. Be who you are!!!! Be edgy or girly, maybe even tomboy!
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    Go shopping often. It will expand your wardrobe, making you more stylish.
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    Follow the trends. This is completely optional, you don't have to because it only matters what's on the inside. Sadly, people will judge the way you dress, the key factor is to dress for success! Follow the trends this year! You might really like them.

Part 3
Hygiene

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    Brush and floss twice a day for good dental hygiene. If you stink or have garlic in your teeth, people aren't going to rush to be your friend. Try to avoid gum, especially when you have braces.
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    Take a shower everyday. Be sure to wash your hair at least 5/7 days a week.
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    Use deodorant. You will find that less people will hang out with you when your armpits are sweaty. Be sure to bring an extra one to school, just in case.
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    Take care of your nails. This does not mean going to the nail spa ten times a month, it means taking care of your nails. Clip them, don't let them grow too long, etc.
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    Care for your hair. Keep it soft and shiny. Do not straighten/curl/crimp your hair too much or your hair will be damaged. Shampoo it up and use conditioner. Leave it in your hair for 2-5 minutes and wash out. Get a cute cut that flatters your face. You may want to ask a hairdresser about your face shape and cut. A style that fits all face shapes are side bangs. You should should get side bangs or normal if you have a large forehead.
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    Consider to start shaving. Middle school is about the time to start shaving. Ask your mom if you think you need to shave.If you haven't developed hair then don't shave.
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    Learn how to prevent acne. Acne can have a pretty bad affect on you, it's best that you try your best to get rid of it.
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    Moisturize your skin. No body likes dry flaky skin, so pump up the lotion!

Part 4
Makeup

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    Keep your makeup looking natural.
    • You're in middle school, not college. You're still very young, and you don't need to wear makeup if you don't want to. If you choose to wear eyeliner, please, try your best to apply it right and not use too much. You can wear eye shadow, but only a natural, non-sparkle kind. If you apply makeup poorly people will think you are really immature!
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    Lose the red lipstick. Middle schoolers are too young to be wearing lipstick. Instead, try lip gloss. Light pink works well.
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    Try to keep your eyebrows looking natural.

Part 5
Being popular

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    Be bold. Try talking to someone you wouldn't normally talk to, and be nice about it!
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    Make new friends!
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    Be sure to be kind to your current friends and show them that you care about them.

Tips

  • Have confidence and be proud of yourself!
  • Accept yourself!
  • If you want others to be nice to you, be nice to them, and to yourself but if they don't change and are still rude and such ignore them.
  • Don't be afraid to start a new trend!
  • Remember that nobody is perfect!
  • Try throwing some parties!
  • Don't pretend you're popular; it will only cause problems.
  • Remember that while being popular, you should keep your grades up!

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