How to Be a Classy Phi Mu Lady

Being a Phi Mu lady is a blessing. Not every girl gets the opportunity to call herself a Phi if you are one--feel VERY privileged! :) In order to be an ideal "Classy Phi Mu Lady" there are some guidelines you have to live by.


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    Always live by the ideals that our founders set for us: Love, Honor, and Truth. Try to model love to everyone. Obviously it is simply impossible to truly feel love toward everyone - but don't snob someone just because you don't particularly like them. Phi Mu's are known to be kind and humble, so just put on that beautiful smile of yours, hold your head high and keep on walking. (If you have to, clench your teeth together and force on a smile so you won't look rude)-but try not to look fake about it.
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    Honor yourself and everyone around you. You are obviously a well rounded GREAT girl if you are a Phi Mu, so take advantage of that!! Don't be conceited or self-centered but take compliments gracefully and feel good about yourself. Having self confidence is a key ingredient to living a fabulous life!
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    Always be truthful. Lying is ugly-and not appealing. If people hear you lying, they will never feel they can fully trust you...because they will assume you could be lying to them too!
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    Always know your limits when going out with friends. It can be appropriate to have a few drinks, but not too many. Know how much your body can handle and stop before you lose any sense of control. Being a loud, obnoxious drunk girl is not cute, not appealing, and NOT classy!
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    Always look well groomed and taken care of, and appropriately modest. ESPECIALLY if you are sporting that PHI MU jersey! Be proud of your letters, but remember, in pjs or Prada, you're representing Phi Mu. (And your letters should never be worn in an inappropriate place like across your rear - definitely NOT classy).
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    Always Be courteous and tender. There is nothing sweeter than a polite, considerate person.
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    "We are the Phi Mu girls... we wear our pins and PEARLS!!!!!"- WEAR PEARLS with your dresses!!!!!!!! That is so classy and fabulous looking!!
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    Help people. Take a few minutes out of your day to just do something nice for someone! You have no idea how much of an impact you could make on someone's life if you just take the time to go out of your way for them. Helping people not only makes them feel great - it also makes you feel worthy, and good about yourself!!
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    just simply be a Lady! :)


  • To minister to the needy and unfortunate.
  • To serve in the light of truth avoiding egotism, narrowness, and scorn.
  • To walk in the way of honor, guarding the purity of our thoughts and deeds.
  • Being honorable, courteous, tender,

thus being true to the womanhood of honor.

  • To practice day by day Love, Honor, and Truth,

thus keeping true to the meaning, spirit, and reality of Phi Mu.

  • She is beauty sitting cross-legged in sweat pants

- giving motherly advice.

  • Striving to esteem the inner man above culture, wealth, or pedigree.
  • Being steadfast in every duty, small or large.
  • To be to others what we would they would be to us.
  • To think of God as a protector and guide of us all.
  • To lend to those less fortunate a helping hand.
  • When she smiles, she brings courage and hope

to your heart.

  • Laughter precedes her; happiness walks with her;

peace follows her.

  • To reverence God as our maker, striving to serve Him in all things.
  • To keep our lives gentle, merciful, and just,

thus being true to the womanhood of love.

  • Believing that our given word is binding.
  • She is sister, mother, and friend - all rolled into one.
  • To keep forever sacred the memory of those we have loved and lost.
  • Its warmth is a caress which seeps through your

troubles and quickly dries your tears.

  • She means everything to me - she is my Phi Mu sister!
  • A Phi Mu is a girl who has moon glow in her hair,

stardust in her eyes, and heaven in her smile.

  • To give freely of our sympathies.
  • She has the power to lift your hopes with

one glance, one twinkle of those laughing eyes.

  • What is a Phi Mu??

  • She is a girl in a pink lace dress who looks for the

world like a princess - in spite of the freckles on her nose.


  • She can be playful, coy, and mischievous.
  • Her impish grin is sunshine on a cloudy day.
  • -Kasey Peek: (Sister of Phi Mu Sorority)

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