How to Appreciate Yourself More Than You Do

At the time, we were kids we were surrounded so much with attention. People would always say to us how cute we are, how smart...etc.

In a grown up world things are differently. People don't give you that much attention and they don't compliment you that often. And if you are a person that wants approval from the others you might feel miserable. But just because others don't say how great you are, doesn't mean that they are right. In fact, they believe that you are better, but there is nothing worse than jealousy. This article have to do with how to appreciate yourself more.


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    Appreciate what you have - and don't long for what you don't have. Yes, crying all the time for things that you do not have whether it is for your appearance or material goods can be a bad source for your self-esteem and your state of mind. Of course you are not perfect, but you do possess qualities that many people don't.
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    Find out which these qualities are and do something about it. To feel better if you are a talent learning new languages why don't you sign up for a class and learn something new.
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    Don't wait for your dream opportunities, create new ones with what you have right now. Yes, dreaming is a good thing and finding excuses. However you have to look around you and see what you have and what can you do with that.
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    You can choose happiness each day. This is true. Every morning when you wake up, you can choose so your mind to produce positive or negative thoughts. You are the worst enemy of yourself by letting your fears and negative thoughts obsess your head. As a result you will feel weak, you won't stand up for your rights each day because you are afraid.
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    By not appreciating yourself, you don't let other people appreciate you . You have to let your mind to produce thoughts, which you believe in yourself, and you are the best. Not just that, you have to believe it. You are worth it and you have to make it happen to actually you have a faith in yourself and your abilities. At that moment when you will believe in yourself, things will change rapidly.You will see that other people will treat you with more respect.
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    Don't blame others that they don't treat you right. Blame yourself that you don't have high opinion on yourself and logically others can sense that. Your appearance is a reflection of how others treat you. Instead look always fresh, put a smile on your face and stand up for yourself.
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    Don't compromise your priorities just because you are afraid that you will lose friends or someone else. The worst thing that can happen is to lose yourself and there is nothing you can do to turn back time. Each compromise that you make is like you are taking away a piece of your wonderful personality. Unfortunately, we are living in a different time than before, and people do not appreciate your kindness. They will try to steal your energy and every possible kindness that you offer in a silver plate.


  • " You are who you think you are, so think the best for yourself"
  • Being alive each day is a miracle. Live your life as is your last and you will see the difference.
  • Don't forget you are unique; the best there is no one better than you.
  • Do something useful each day for you or others. By being handy for others, you will feel more useful.
  • Life it is too dynamic these days, but if you do not work with yourself gradually after a while, you will feel a lot more miserable than now and it will be more difficult.
  • Talk about it. Don't be afraid to show your vulnerable side. By talking about it, you will feel much better and released.

Things You'll Need

  • A friend or a family member to talk to

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Categories: Building and Maintaining Self Confidence